May 23, 2003

Normal?

Question for everyone....

If someone is in a relationship...a very close one. The couple are BEST friends in the world...they share everything with each other...they make plans for their futures...they have a great time talking...they have tons in common...they are very similar in general.

If one day that person feels all of that...then they change and they just want to be friends...If that person had no real reason to change....if the other person treats them well and is the same person they always were...is that normal? Is it sane? Is that person hiding something from the other person?
Is it okay to just one day stop loving someone for no real reason? If you do...doesn't that mean the love was never real to begin with? How could true love ever die...especially without reason?

Interested in any feedback.

Posted by Josh at May 23, 2003 04:55 PM
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heyyy. actually. who knows. she says she was in love with me, but now she doesnt like me like that...she just sees me as a friend. nothing happened between us. things were normal...going well. she said she needed a break, which turned into -lets break up and maybe one day well get back together, which has now turned into- i know youre not "the one" and well never ever be together again, cause ill never have feelings for you like that. so...you tell me what her deal is. makes absolutely NO sense, and its good to see that someone besides me sees this. you cant be in love with someone for so long and then just say...the feelings left me, i just like you as a friend. no way, no how. of course something is missing, but i dunno what. :( it sucks.

Posted by: Joshua Taj Bozeman at May 27, 2003 02:33 PM

Here we meet again...SOunds like she meets a great deal to ya? I hate when this shit happens to people. I think she has a reason. Every girl (normal girl/women) wants man who treats her with respect, knows her inside and out, and have comment to eachother. You're giving her that. Has she said she needs something else? I mean she can't just drop off like that. She's got a perfect guy that does what she wants and he takees care of her. WHat else could she ask for. I don't know her or you for that matter but there's deffinatly something missing. sorry :( hang in there!

Posted by: Kate at May 27, 2003 11:52 AM
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